A few weeks ago I presented a talk on EFT and Family constellations at the Association of Meridian Therapies (AMT) conference. The AMT reported that this presentation was one of the most popular and talked about at the conference!
My focus was the importance of the flow of love from one generation to the next, what can cause interruptions in that flow and how to strengthen that flow when it has broken. To see the presentation, go here:
For more details about the GOE (Guild of Energists) go here.
See what people say about doing EFT with family constellations:
“I just wanted to say how much I enjoyed your presentation and to thank you for allowing me to be your demo:) I got a lot from it and I think the others did too. It’s a really powerful tool and it made it so easy and gentle to get into deep stuff.” Jaqui Crook
“Honestly, it was amazing, such deep healing going on in me and through me. Feeling so honoured to be a part of it all. I just can’t believe that so many changes with my mother happened after I did the constellation yesterday… or maybe I can. Amazing! Really amazing! ” RP
“Having spent a few occasions under Tamara’s guidance with family constellations, it has always been an utterly fascinating process. Each time, I have been a representative, which meant I have cried other’s tears and felt other’s feelings, it’s always been a very powerful experience. Last week, however, I was the issue holder and my word, this incredible process succeeded in shifting a belief that was so deeply held that I didn’t even realise it was there! The intensity of the experience was very gently facilitated by Tamara, who skilfully knew what questions to ask, when to ask them, all the time creating an atmosphere of safety, so that emotions were allowed to flow. If that wasn’t powerful enough, the knock on effect to family members not even in the room with us was phenomenal. A deeply healing journey, held in experienced, kind and gifted hands.” Leora Leboff
“I found you to be very intuitive and gentle and using EFT combined with the Family Constellation method was a really effective and frankly extraordinary mix.
I suppose I thought it might be all fluffy nonsense but the impact is unquestionable – it really has made a significant and immediate difference to how I am feeling and my general energy levels. It is hard to see how saying some words and tapping on different points can do anything at all but I know it did because I felt the changes and I still feel the benefits.
All the good things from the session are still gently reverberating inside me. My love for my son has definitely increased or rather my connection to it. I feel much more compassionate and patient with him.
I’ve been away this weekend with my parents and one of my brothers and his family and it has been a lovely time. I have felt free to enjoy them all and let anything frustrating, annoying or unhelpful to me just wash over me. I didn’t realise all this army stuff was going on inside me but now that its out I can see how it has been effecting me. With all the centenary memories of the first world war there are a lot of reminders all around of war, particularly in my parents home as my father is very involved in writing histories of the war. I found looking at some of the photos and such like this weekend very moving in a helpful way. I feel connected with the sadness of warfare but not dominated by it.
I had a moment with my son where I think I would have been angry with him a week ago but this time I found myself defending him, protecting him as he let a cascade of typical 3 year old emotion wash over him rather than being impatient or angry with him. It felt really good and his little face afterwards looking at me with such love was really special. A little later he tracked me down across the house saying ” I have something important to say to you Mummy. I love you from top to bottom!” It was so sweet. I really felt he’d observed a change in me and was responding to it. If I have no other benefits from EFT and your priceless session, this little moment was worth everything. And to be honest, I am sure I will get more and more from EFT.” HH